Al-kisah Expectant Mother

Assalamualaikum.

Warning. Entri ni banyak gambar tau. Hehe saje je nak share serba sedikit pasal buku report mengandung ibu & bayi kat Jepun ni. Tiba tiba semangat plak nak berkongsi. Hehe. Saya takde pengalaman bersalin di Malaysia (obvioulsy kot Ahlami, since this is your first pregnancy hehe). So saje la nak share yang Jepun punya.

Ni buku report ibu&bayi kat sini. Lupa dah dalam nihongo (bahasa jepun) dia panggil apa. Kang salah sebut terbelit lidah saya nanti. Hehe

Kat dalam tu, ada laaa report untuk setiap kali check up. Awal awal pregnancy dulu sebulan skali je check-up, then 2 minggu sekali. Now dah seminggu sekali (saya dah nak masuk 36 minggu).

And setiap kali check up, kat sini mmg dia akan scan. So, memang baaaaanyak sgt gambar scan baby yang kami dapat. Huhu. Dengan itu, pihak hospital mmg bekalkan buku ni, untuk kita tampal gambar2 baby yang telah di scan. Setakat ni kami dah guna 2 buku. Rasanya sampai 2 buku je kot till beranak nanti

Ni masa awal2 pregnancy dulu. Baby kecik sangaaaaaaat lagi. Hehe

 And the baby is getting bigger. Ni masa 5 bulan kot.

Kami juga dibekalkan CD, setiap kali scan, doktor akan rekod. So, everything is in this CD. Boring2 bleh laa tengok baby. Pasang je kat DVD hehe.

Ni gambar 4D yang paling cantik rasanya yg berjaya doktor captured. Time ni dah 30+ weeks pregnant. Just tak ingat the exact date. Hehe.

So far, Alhamdulillah. Setakat ni semuanya baik baik sahaja. Cuma last check-up, doktor cakap baby agak besar (dalam bahasa jepun, 'ooki'). Hehe tapi taktahu la betul ke tak kan, sebab tu sekadar estimation. Doa yang baik baik aja. Semoga dipermudahkan urusan saya bersalin nanti, inshaAllah :) Doa banyak2, tambah tambah bulan puasa ni kan :)

bubye

Ahlami

Salam Perantauan

Jeng jeng jeng!

Hihi, tak sangka la plak masuk paper gambar salam perantauan kami nih. Hajat di hati malas dah sebenarnya nak menghantar gambar ke Utusan Malaysia/Berita Harian/Metro dan sebagainya. Tapi, encik suami laaa yang bersungguh sungguh nak hantar. Semangat plok tok laki ambo nih. Masa kat Adelaide dulu semangat laa jugak nak hantar salam perantauan ni. And pernah laa masuk 2 or 3 kali kot paper rasanya laa. Huhu. Anyway,  gambar ni baru je hantar sebenarnya, then a few days later, dah masuk dah. Mula2 tu kawan saya laa yang bagitau ada nampak gambar ktorng dalam paper. Ingatkan masuk online je. Ehhhh, masuk suratkhabar terus rupanya. Alhamdulillah :) Untuk tatapan family di kampung sbenarnya tu :) Tanda ingatan tulus ikhlas dari kami di bumi sakura ni :)



Iftar di Kaikan

Assalamualaikum :)

Sudah 20 hari kita berpuasa kan. Kejap lagi nak bersahur untuk puasa hari ke 21 pulak. Macam mane ibu ibu mengandung di luar sana? Masih bertahan lagi kah? Eh, tetiba plak tanya pasal ibu mengandung aje kan. Hihi. Saje jer :P

Anyway, ni nak cite pasal minggu lepas punye event. Last saturday, saya dan suami ada wat majlis iftar kat kaikan (asrama/international house) untuk warga malaysia kat Yonezawa ni. Ada laa dalam 30 orang yg hadir termasuk kami. Dalam 30 orang tu ada 2 family, and selainnya ialah students kat sini lah. Alhamdulillah, berjaya buat nasi kerabu ayam bakar sebagai main dish. Lain lain makanan, pau/roti sambal (sponsored by kak as), 2 jenis kek yg di sponsor oleh Iskandar & Hafiz, mix koktail with custard dan juga bubur jagung & sagu. Alhamdulillah, makanan semua nya cukup, dan takde pembaziran yg berlaku :) Tapi selaku host, agak cuak sebenarnya takut makanan tak cukup. Al maklum lah, students tu ramai lelaki, 2 org je perempuan. Hihi so portion utk org laki makan ni biasanya byk la sket kan compared to org prempuan. Hehe tp alhamdulillah cukup :)

Saya nak ucapkan terima kasih utk kak as sefamily yg sgt byk tolong bg pinjam barang, dan sumbangkan tenaga dan macam2 lagi. Terima kasih kat students jgk banyak tolong. Lepas sudah makan and solat semua, diorang siap tolong basuh periuk belanga tu semua haaaa. Kagum rase! Org laki pon rajin tauu :) Thenkiuu thenkiu! Maaf jgk sekiranya ada kekurangan apa2, atau ketidaksedapan makanan yang ambo masok. Huhu. Seriously rase mcm nak terberanak pon ada masak utk ramai2 ni. Hihi tp masih dpt control myself. Kat Adelaide dulu lain la, ada ramai geng! Hehe. Anyway, yg paling nak beterima kasih mestilah encik suami tercinta, semua benda dia buat. Hihi dgn gigihnya membakar ayam terutamanya :) Love you laaa abg!

Disebabkan kesibukan memasak dan prepare the food, x sempat nak amik gambar ramai-ramai. Ada la sket gmba ni haaaa, tu pon org lain yg amik. Hihi. InshaAllah ada rezeki kita bleh wat makan2 mcm ni lagi kan. Raya nanti la plak :)



Bubye

Ahlami

That day

That day. That special day. That most unforgettable day. 

I might have forgotten to value and appreciate every little detail small things that each of my family members, each of my best friends that had been helping the day became alive and meaningful. 

I was browsing my niece's photo album, and there are 3 photo albums which composed of my wedding event photos. The akad nikah, the reception at my home sweet home in Kampung Penambang and sambut menantu in Pasir Mas :) MashaAllah, how I miss those moments that we have shared and cherished together. Together as family. This is one of the nikmat that Allah has given to me, given to us, to appreciate. And sometimes I feel guilty for not being thankful and grateful enough for this, and more. Astaghfirullah. 

I realized that my 4th sister, Kak Lah had arranged all my nieces to wear pink-purple based dress code, and they did look lovely on that day. So sweet, my blossoms ! :) They are always sweet :)

And the nephews, they were all in blue! Actually, it was me, who had decided and officially announced that the boys had to wear blue, and the girls must be in pink. So there you go, it might be not all perfect all the way through, but at the end of the day, I say thank you Allah for that moment, for that day :) It was all perfect to me.

My pretty blossoms in pink :)

The guys in soft blue

Muaz and Wazif looking very handsome in blue kemeja :)

My cousin, Hasifah and my adek's friend, Sakinah pon pakai pink jgk :)

Full house ! Alhamdulillah cukup 10 adik beradik. 

 

 In-laws supposedly pakai pink belacan :P tapi ni sgt okay dah !

My besties pon, when I told them to wear yellow-brown colour, they happened to appear just what I had imagined ! Except Puan Ibtisam ! Hihihi

My pengapits, Elly and Wahida looking great in white kaftan. Lawa kan?

That girl in black jubah that I heart so much. 

Semua kerja dia buat ! Tolak jadi tok kadi je kot. Hihi

Oh syukran ya Allah. Alhamdulillah. InshaAllah, semoga bertemu lagi yer wahai family terchenta, dan my besties !

Bubye

Ahlami

P/s: Hari ni buat chicken chop terlebih masin sauce black pepper nya. Sobs3. Sabor jer laaa encik suami yer :P

biah solehah

Assalamualaikum wbt.

Hi everyone :)

How have you been treating your special guest, Ramadhan? Is it good? Is it getting better? If it is, Alhamdulillah. this will bring you to a higher level as a muslim, inshaAllah.

Anyway, yang saya perasan, kalau bulan ramadhan tiba, semua orang akan berluma-lumba nak buat baik kan. nak bersedekah, nak melakukan amalan sunat, nak semayang berjemaah, nak jamu org makan iftar. Alhamdulillah. semoga kita semua pon tergolong dalan golongan tersebut :) Inshaallah, ijazah taqwa boleh jadi milik kita. Tapi hanya Allah yang tentukan :) 

Biah solehah. Rasa nya ramai dah tau kan? Suasana atau persekitaran yang baik. Tu lah maksudnya. Baik tu mestilah kena dgn syariat islam. Saya rasa untuk mencapai biah solehah tu, pertama sekali, diri kita yang kena berubah. Individu, then family, then barulah masyarakat. Betul dak? Hehe. Biah solehah ni saya rasa dapat elakkan diri kita dari berprasangka buruk dengan orang lain. Bahkan dapat elak diri kita dari melakukan ghibah (mengumpat) dan buhtan (fitnah). 

Rasulullah menjelaskan, tatkala ditanya oleh seorang sahabat, “Wahai Rasulullah, apakah itu ghibah?” Lalu jawab Baginda, “Menyebut sesuatu yang tidak disukai oleh saudaramu di belakangnya!” Kemudian Baginda ditanya lagi, “Bagaimana sekiranya apa yang disebutkan ltu benar?” jawab Baginda, “Kalau sekiranya apa yang disebutkan itu benar, maka itulah ghibah, tetapi jika sekiranya perkara itu tidak benar, maka engkau telah melakukan buhtan (pembohongan besar).” (Hadis riwayat Muslim, Abu Daud dan At-Tarmizi).

Nauzubillah, moga kita dijaukan dari melakukan dosa dosa besar tersebut. Sebab tu saya rasa family yang ada suasana dan persekitaran yg baik ni, ialah keluarga yang penuh dengan sakinah and mawaddah (kasih sayang). Saya berharap family saya tergolong sebagai keluarga yang sakinah. Inshaallah ! Tiada apa yg diharapkan kami selain dari redha Allah swt :) 

Ma & Abah + 10 orang anak + 9 orang menantu + 26 orang cucu. 

Oh Allah, guide us to the right way. Jadikanlah kami keluarga yang sakinah. Kurniakanlah kami biah solehah. Hanya keredhaanMu yang kami harapkan. Ameen.

sebenarnya, saya rindu pada this person. hehe. my abah. the coolest person ever! abah sokmo. and funniest too! tapi rasanya, kami adik beradik x pernah kot tiba2 call umah, then bagitau abah, abah, 'rindu laaa ko abah'  (rindu la kat abah). hehe. sbenarnya, ami rindu and ingat sokmo ko abah :)

bubye
Ahlami

p/s: sambil menanti utk sahur 11 ramadhan. mashaallah 11 ramadhan doh deh? cepat nyoo laa masa berlalu..

Bulan puasa pon berjalan jugak ke?

Assalamualaikum wbt

Hi everyone :)

Weekend sabtu 28july, saya dan suami sempat pegi Mount Zao. Kat situ ada okama (kawah) kesan gunung berapi iaitu gunung Zao tu la. Saya pon x brapa faham jugak sbenarnya bagaimana okama itu terbentuk. Hehe al maklum lah ketidakfahaman bahasa jepun kan. Boleh rujuk sini, Okama crater lake. Tapi on the way ke sana, al maklum laa gunung kan, jalan memang berbelit mcm ular lah, saya dah la mmg jenis ada movement sickness, so uwweeekk jgk laa saya dalam dok tahan2 tu. muntah skali. lepas tu, dah smpai atas tu plak, kena naik benda alah tu plak, scary jgk sbenarnya (boleh rujuk gambar kat bawah), lepas tu kena daki sket lagi plak, dgn batu bata yg agk banyak and tanah sedikit licin, so mmg kena extra careful. Fuhh mmg mencabar sebelum nak sampai tgk pemandangan yg cantik tuh. hihi. Takpe laa, exercise utk ibu mengandung 34minggu nih :P

Salah satu sebab kami ke sana ialah kerana ada tetamu dari Saitama, iaitu kak umie sefamily yang datang berkunjung ke Yonezawa :) alhamdulillah, murah rezeki tetamu datang berkunjung kan? Kak umie sampai umah petang jumaat tuh, so sempat la berbuka puasa bersama-sama, dan kami sempat juga jemput tukang masak terkenal yonezawa, Kak As sefamily untuk iftar bersama kami. Alhamdulillah, kak as ni memang lah pemurah orangnya, macam2 kuih di bawak nya :) Alhamdulillah rezeki kan, plus dapat berbuka puasa, and berterawih bersama, terasa lagi keberkatannya :) Kak as jugak sempat jamu kami hari sabtu malam tu dgn moreh yg istimewa iaitu mee bandung muar ! alhamdulillah, dapat jugak saya makan mee bandung yg memang betul2 orang muar yg buat. Oishikatta kak as ! :)

Hari ahad nya, kami bawak kak umie round round kat area yonezawa aja. Cuaca yang agak panas minggu ni (memang summer sudah menunjukkan belang nya hehe), tak berapa mengizinkan untuk berjalan jauh. Okay la kot kan kak umie ? Hehe. 

Okla, jom layan gambar, lama dah x masukkan gambar dalam entri blog kan? Hehe. Dulu kemain sukaaa nak masukkan gamba hehe

ni kak umie sefamily :)

 ni laaa okama crater lake kat mount zao 

nak sampai ke okama tuh, kena naik benda ni dulu. Huhu tengok la mak buyong ni dgn beraninya naik benda alah nih. 

mak buyong kepenatan

kak as yang kat tengah2 tu :)

okay, tu je kot utk sementara waktu :) tadarus dah juzuk brapa? hehe


bubye
Ahlami

While waiting

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Hi everyone :)

It's 1.40am now in Japan while I am typing this out. I have like 30minutes to finish this off, and wake my darling up for sahur. Yes, subuh prayer will be at 2.51am. So, anytime by now we can start our sahur. Awal kan? Takpe, berbuka nanti pukul 6.56pm inshaAllah :) Alhamdulillah setakat ni x tinggal lagi puasa :)

Lately ni susah sangat nak tidur sebelum sahur. Al maklum lah kena bangun sahur awal kan. Encik husband sebab dia penat kerja, so pkul 12 tu dah memang kroh kroh dah. Sekarang ni pon syok je tengok dia tidur. Kita yang tak boleh tidur ni, update blog aje la kan. Hihi.

Really, tak tahu nak update ape. Tapi tiba tiba rasa syukur diberi peluang untuk berpuasa di Jepun nih. As far as I'm concerned with my surroundings, comparing Japan and Australia, ada bezanya. Australia kalau dari segi bab makanan memang serba serbi mudah, from the raw ingredients to the ready made food. Banyak boleh makan. Japan is a bit difficult and challenging I should say, and most of us akan dapat sumber bahan bahan nak masak ni from online shop. Agak leceh, tapi ada advantage jugak which is tak payah susah susah angkat barang shopping hehe. Tapi bukan semua benda yang kita nak ada jugak kat online shopping tuh. So, kena banyak bersobarrrr. Hehe

So bila time nak masak sesuatu meal tu and takde bahan nya, x best lah kan, surely will remind my time being in  Adelaide. Senang nye laaa kan. Tapi sebenarnya nak lagi senang, haaaa kat Malaysia la, cakap je nak kuih ape, tunjuk je kat bazaar ramadhan tu :P

Alhamdulillah, tinggal di oversea ni mengajar kita lebih independent and creative. Lama-lama kita akan rasa biasa and adaptive. InshaAllah :)

Oh yer, hari ni genap 26 orang cucu ma and abah saya ! Alhamdulillah, murah rezeki :) Congrats to my sis, Halilah and her husband, as well as their kids, surely riuh rendah rumah tu dapat adik baru :)

Bubye

Ahlami

Berpuasa and tour di Hospital

Assalamualaikum wbt.

Hi everyone :)

Kalau kat Japan, sekarang hari ke 3 berpuasa di bulan Ramadhan. Sama je ngn Malaysia. Kalau xsilap, Japan ni selalunya memang ikut Malaysia bab menetapkan tarikh puasa and raya sebab Malaysia is the nearest islamic country. Hmm bagus jugak, at least dpt raya sama2 ngn org Malaysia. Hehe :)

Hari ni hari ke 3 saya berpuasa sebagai ibu mengandung. Alhamdulillah. Day 1 went well. Day 2 pon okay jugak, despite byk berjalan ke sana sini, sebab ada check up ngan my gynae, iaitu semalam la. Lama plak kat hospital tu sebab semalam ada a few things kena buat. 

1. Check up macam biasa lah dgn sensei
2. Jumpa chef kat hospital tuh, dia tnya mcm2 laa benda yg kita nk makan, yg xboleh makan, and bleh request la makan ape2 contohnya nk strawberry sundae ke (hehehe) sepanjang 7hari 6 malam kat hospital tuh. 
3. Jumpa nurse, utk explain pasal video proses kelahiran bayi. Very detailed! From the first pain you will receive, till part yg jahit2 tu semua. Alhamdulillah, xdela kowai (scary) sgt. Hehe 
4. Pegi tengok bilik menunggu sebelum bukaan betul2 10cm, and tengok labour room jgk. And dia tnya nak aroma fragrant apa kat dalam blik and labour room tuh. Perghhhh sampai ke aroma pon dia tnya.
5. Tengok wad atau bilik ibu&bayi sepanjang seminggu kat spital tu lah. ada 2 type je, yg biasa, and yg special. yg special tu mahal sket la. saya rase nk duduk bilik biasa aje, sbb tu pon dah ckup lengkap dah and luas and selesa :)

So begitulah al kisahnya tour di Shimanuki Clinic, Yonezawa :) So far, nurse kat situ mmg smua nya baik2 and cakap lembut2 aje. Xpaham mmg diorg explain satu2. Tapi mmg saya x paham pon sbb diorg ckp jepun haha. Tapi xpe, encik hubby kan ade. Ngeh3.

Oh the entry is getting tedious. Boring baca kan? :P InshaAllah nanti update lg. 

Bubye

Ahlami

p/s: hari ni nak buat gulai kurma ayam and goreng ikan je kot. and kuih puding mix fruit and cekodok pisang, inshaAllah :)

Ramadhan Kareem :)

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Hi everyone :)

Alhamdulillah, tomorrow will be our first day of Ramadhan and of course will be my first Ramadhan experience in Japan.

Last year berpuasa di Malaysia setelah a few years back berpuasa di Australia. Berpuasa kat Malaysia mcm biasa la, tempoh puasa tu xde laa lama and xdela sekejap sgt kan. Puasa kat Australia la, when it was during my studies time, year 2007-2010, the time was heading closer towards winter, so, i consider it to be puasa sekejap jugak lah. Kalau x silap in year 2010, sahur pkul 5am, and pkul 6pm dah bukak puasa dah :) So x penat sgt lah.

Anyway, this year saya buat pertama kalinya puasa di Jepun, pertama kalinya berpuasa sebagai seorang isteri dan pertama kali jugak berpuasa sebagai pregnant mother :) What an experience kan? And ditambah lg berpuasa pada musim panas. Jepun sekarang ni musim panas :) Tapi Alhamdulillah, waktu berbuka puasa di jepun pada musim panas ni takdela lambat sangat. 1st day of Ramadhan buka puasa pada jam 6.58pm. Cuma nya waktu subuh yg awal, around 3am menyebabkan kami berpuasa lebih kurang 15-16jam lah sehari. Huhu, semoga saya kuat untuk berpuasa. Harapannya dpt lah berpuasa penuh tahun ni :) InshaAllah selagi mampu ! Tapi xpe, as day goes by, waktu subuh tu akan makin lambat, and waktu maghrib akan makin cepat. So x terasa sgt kot letih  berpuasa :)

Hmmm kuih2 frozen mcm popia and karipap baru je buat semalam, dengan harapan xdela spend masa lama sgt in the kitchen bila puasa :) Kalau xlarat, bleh mintak tolong hubby je gorengkan :) 

Anyway, diucapkan selamat menyambut ramadhan dan selamat menjalani ibadah puasa kepada muslimin muslimat di luar sana. Semoga kita mendapat ijazah taqwa yg diidam-idamkan. Semoga pintu ar-rayyan terbuka luas utk kita. InshaAllah :) 

Bubye

Ahlami

Alahai, apa sangat lah kan?

Assalamualaikum !


Hi everyone ! Haihhhh so long, here I am again with my new own post. Same reason, same cause, just because so many things have happened lately, confusing myself when to post up my new entry. Heh Heh. Tapi tu la kan, tengok orang lain relax je boleh update blog bila bila masa. Anytime, with some interesting outputs and infos plak tuh. I was just blank and lost ! Haha.


Today marks my pregnancy to be 32weeks 4 days to be exact and precise :) Alhamdulillah, so far everything is under control. The baby and myself. Except the fact that I have to bear the fatigue and tiredness throughout the day. And at nights, difficulty of having that deep sleep that I used to. But those difficulties and chaos are just part of pregnancy and normal. So as for myself, keep thinking that other expectant mothers out there have survived this, so what is it for myself? Hehe. Orang lain lagi byk yg susah kan. Anak ramai lg, pastu pregnant lagi, so apa sangat lah saya nih. Kecik aja masalah nya. Plus, kan ada hubby yg always ready to dengar luahan hati kita nih. So ape sangat lah kan. Hehe.


So, to keep myself calm and peaceful, mari kita zikrillah. I find it very relaxing and calm bila dgr bacaan Al-Quran. Paling best so far ialah Mishary:s recitation. Hubby la yg introduced. My baby and I love it so much ! Alhamdulillah :)


Oh yes, my 4th sister, kaklah is also expecting and the EDD is just around the  corner. Xlama dah  tuh, tunggu masa je. Tahun ni rasanya paling ramai kot cucu cucu atuk nenek will be born :) 4 inshaAllah hehe

Masa celebrate my birthday. Disneysea :) Arigatou ne abg sayang ! Mmmuahss

Okay, that's all for now. 


Bubye
Ahlami

25 years old me :)

Assalamualaikum, hi everyone !

I hope everyone here is having a good time, whether it is with your family, your friends, your spouse, or maybe on your own :)

It has been really a very long long time for this blog, since it was last updated. I feel sorry for neglecting this piece of mine that I have. Well, at least I still have it. Kalau la blog ni ada kaki, dah lama kan melarikan diri sebab owner dia take care pon pasal dia. Oghe kelate sebut, 'tok cagho'. Hehe 

Well, there's a reason  I have to really put up my best effort today, updating this blog, just because it is a yearly routine for me, to give out one entry on my birthday. So, here we go ! 

Alhamdulillah ! Allahuakbar ! Subhanallah ! These fingers of mine are still typing, are still working, this body of mine is still inhaling and exhaling air. Alhamdulillah. Tsumma Alhamdulillah. I am blessed with a loving husband, that really understands me. Love me as a wife and treat me as his best friend. Plus with growing family of mine. Anak sedara makin bertambah! 25 now, and still counting ! Alhamdulillah, for this tiny little creature in my belly that is growing healthily, inshaallah ! I am now 28 weeks pregnant. How can i be more grateful and thankful for this ? Thank you Ya Rabb !

This year marks me as a person who has been living for 25 years. Let us muhasabbah. What have I done rights, and what else have I done wrongs? All the rights should I be continue doing it, and the wrongs should I be concerned to avoid it, or improve it. Especially as a wife, and soon inshaAllah as a mother. There is a mixed feeling inside of me, thinking about being a mother. What kind of mother will I become ? Truthfully, I want to be a mother that will help bring my daughter closer to jannah, inshaAllah ! But first, it is me that has to be better day by day ! Oh Ya Rabb, help us, guide us !

Okay, I think enough with this clicking fingers typing for now. Will get myself to be more effective and efficient, to update this blog :)

Bubye

Ahlami

Ps: Happy 25th Birthday Ahlami :)

New Path

Assalamualaikum.

Hye everyone !

It has been almost a month since my last update which was on january 18th.

It has been two months and a half since I have moved here, in Japan :)

Exactly. After the wedding, terus datang sini on December 4th 2011. Having said that, it is really a new beginning of married life for me and hubby. Hubby takpela dia dah nak masuk 10 tahun kat sini. Huhu. But to me, everything is new. New people. New house. New places. New road that I've chosen to walk with my husband :) Lucky that he always holds my hands and promise to never let go of them. Hihihi jiweng karat la plak.

I'm not into being descriptive about how did i get here, what was the feeling and so on, sebab too many things to be told. Hihi.

But yeah, we had our honeymoon in Okinawa Island ! Yes ! It was like a dream came true for me sebab mmg dah lameeee sgt dah nak pegi Churaumi Aquarium tu (one of the attractions in Okinawa). Alhamdulillah !

Anyway, I'm now a full-time housewife. Seronok sbnrnya x pegi keje nih. Hihi. Tapi lg seronok kalu hubby sekali x pegi keje. Haha mane boleh mcm tu kan, kalu x nnti nak makan ape kalu hubby x keje ? Kih3.

I can say that I'm still learning to be adaptive towards all these changes of life. Being adaptive. Semoga Allah permudahkan urusan dan kehidupan kami di sini. Ameenn :)

hihi lamo doh nok pegey gonih. hubby geli tueee :P

Bubye

Ahlami

Happy Beginning

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

It has been a really really long time since my last update (entry) which was in October, isnt't ? October, the month that I can remember, being a single lady, with my sister, hanging out with my sister, whether it was kbmall, or tesco :) It was indeed a great moment, bittersweet when it came to wedding preparation :)

Oh yes, I had never planned to shut down this blog. Hehe, the stories continue, don't they ?

So, I finally had my 'happy ending' story on November 25th 2011. Alhamdulillah ! Alhamdulillah ! Alhamdulillah ! Indeed, Allah is all the almighty. Allahuakbar ! The greatest feeling to have that time, being a wife :) It was the happiest moment ever ! And my lips kept on saying Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah that time :) I'm a wife now ! So then my 'happy ending' continued with the reception. My husband and I felt so blessed on that day !

My ma abah - the one and only. These two important persons in my life had made me feel our majlis filled with baraqah. from the smiles that they wore throughout the majlis. How can i be thankful for them, oh Allah !

Ummi - that day marks me to have another mother, to be cared and to care for. Alhamdulillah ummi. Alhamdulillah !

My siblings - kakak sefamily, kakngoh sefamily, kaknor sefamily, kaklah sefamily, kakja sefamily, abe & kakda, kakjie sefamily, kaktie sefamily and my adek. From the tolong2 with the door gifts, buat kek (my kakja made the pretty cake for us !).

The in laws - who had always been supportive and helping us a lot from a little chaos to big big thing :)

Relatives - makcik2, pakcik2, spupu spapat yg byk tolong meriahkan majlis and byk hulur tgn membantu. I know I haven't got a proper chance to thank them all. Moga Allah kurniakan pahala dan permudahkan urusan kalian smua ameen :)

Friends -Maslina yusak yg tolong before, masa majlis and after majlis ! Ibtisam & arepp, peteh, siti mariam, maryam, jasmine, yg sudi dtg dari jauh ! Seriously sgt sgt terharu ! My UMK students, FPV yang sentiasa cool and memeriahkan lg majlis kawin saya and also UMK staffs. Hehe. Aida, Elly, wahida, wani yg byk tolong ! To all smipians, and kwn2 sekolah penambe yg dtg. Teachers also ! And smua yg dtg and hadir, thank youuuu !

Ada cerita sbenarnya sebelum majlis kawi ktornag nih, actually banjir melanda kg penambang. Wuwuwuwu, so Ahlami ni dok resah gelisah mmg xtau nk wat ape dah, menangis pon ada. Huhu sedih sedih. But alhamdulillah berkat doa semua ahli keluarga dan rakan-rakan, the banjir finally said bye-bye on our solemnization day tu jugak. Tp still ada air jgk la sket2 kat luar tuh.

After all, there was my 'happy ending' story. In my definition, wedding is not the happy ending. Why 'ending' when it is only a beginning in your life essence. It is actually my 'Happy Beginning'. My new and happy beginning of life, for this marriage may Allah shower His blessings and baraqah. May we have soleh and solehah kids, and treasure our moments together, lead us to Jannah ya Allah ! Again, to love him for Him :)

bubye

Ahlami

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Muien Mahadi's blog

Maslina Yusak 1

Maslina Yusak 2

Maslina Yusak 3

Bump and Busy

Entri kali ni byk mcm buat rumusan from my sister's blog, Kak Ngoh. She is a good writer. The content in her blog are all useful for me, and somehow in our everyday busy life, it can reflect back to what we have done so far, and are we doing it right ?

Life is slippery, and sometimes full of bumps here and there, and when you hit that bump, it will give you a little shake or a huge shake if you happen to hit a big and rough bump. Sometimes the shake that you have is just a reminder to say that you are alive, you are still moving, or it can be a wake-up call for you, to be more focus and continue your journey. Life goes on, as my sister just mentioned in her latest entry.

The other entry was about being busy. She said,

"Sebenarnya elemen sibuk ini boleh menjadi isu dalam satu2 perhubungan dan boleh menyebabkan hubungan menjadi semakin renggang atau pun terus putus begitu sahaja."

"Jangan jadikan alasan anda sibuk dan tiada masa untuk mendail nombor telefon atau menghantar SMS kepada mereka (orang tersayang, keluarga, kawan-kawan) "

"Jangan pula bila kita dalam kesusahan atau perlukan pertolongannya barulah teringat pada mereka"

True. Kadang2 yer jgk, time dok Adelaide dlu, nak dekat2 exam or test tu laaa paling byk call ma abah. Time happy and huhahuha tu jarang skali laa nak call ma abah. Astaghfirullah, x baik mcm tu kan.

Hmmm another thing is to see how a person that used to be really close to you, but then turns out to be a completely different person when something bad/good happens in his/her life. I pray that I will never leave my family and my orang2 tersayang, no matter what happens. Oh Allah, Rabbi yasir, wala tuassir, Rabbi tamim bil khair (Oh Allah, make it easy and do not make it difficult, Oh Allah make it end well)

So, are we on the right track being a good human being at the moment ? Ask yourself. Time to evaluate ourselves. Please remember, sayang bukanlah hanya di sebut sebut dalam hati tetapi hendaklah dibuktikan dengan amal yang nyata :) Hehe jolo kakngoh, jolo !

kakngoh is two from the left. the rest are all anak-anak dara okay. hehe

Bubye

Ahlami

For the rest of my life

I have purposely clipped in the countdown ticker at the top of my blog, so that whenever I look at it, this will give me like an indicator, to do things, and not to rush things, and to keep calm too. Hehe.

But then I found this quote, posted up by a friend of mine,

"When you realize (and decide) you want to spend your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible"

But then, kena buat ape ? Wait, and sabar lah ! Tapi, bukan wait saja-saja jer, work must be done as well. Hehe.

Always remind ourselves, that things are not always going to be super sweet, perfect, problem-free, easy, comfortable, and all those feelings or conditions that you wish for. It's not going to be perfect. Sebab tu kena sentiasa ready, and plan for the best. Doa itu penting. And of course, have a faith that we will always stay together and have each other no matter what happens. InshaAllah, with God's willing :)

bubye

Ahlami

Wave of Change

I can sense a wave of change is coming my way, but that only make life, life. Isn't it ? People talk about moving on, changing who they are, getting better, but eventually, they adapt anyway, kan ? Kat mana pon kita duduk, ape jenis kerja pon kita dapat, surrounded by org yang pelik2 skali pon, kalau pandai adapt and sesuaikan diri, inshaAllah kita akan survive ! :) It's all in you.

When there is no power to stop the change, we have to figure out the change and make it suit you. I think we are pretty much made, to be adaptive towards changes. We have the capability to face our fears and challenges, because HE promised that in whatever situations HE puts you in, that is the best for us :)

So, to my pretty Adek, Congratulations on your graduation dear ! You're now a grown up, with a degree holder. Ma abah and all of us are so proud of you ! You just mark all of our siblings, all 10, now have completed University educational level. Alhamdulillah. Summa Alhamdulillah !

Change of life, change of status. But you are still my adek okay ! Hehe

UKM convocation day, September 2011

bubye

Ahlami

one and only

Assalamualaikum

The title can be deceiving though. This time is pretty much random, cause I am listening to Adele's song, called 'One and Only'. I love the tone of her voice, and the way she sings it, just like a story telling. Don't you think the same way ?

Oh anyway, everyone has their one and only. Am I right ? Hehe

Life has been pretty much hectic lately. It's not hectic actually. It's just that you have so many things to do, and you have to sort those out according to the priorities, and settle them down one by one. So far, everything is just under control ! Hehe, at least I have my one and only that is always ready and giving his full commitments. The one that I can always rely on, the one that I can't wait to talk to after coming back from work. The one that I can express my feelings and tell about all the chaos and chores I have to face that day. The one and only :)

I just realized that my most recent entry was a month ago, and I haven't updated the Hari Raya story. I probably have missed my yearly routine, which is the raya story. Hihi. Well, raya is sooooo different this year. Everything was beautiful. And all I can say is, being grateful is really important. I have to always remind myself with that. The raya khutbah, I have a few points slipped into my mind. I came to know that Aidil Fitri, the word 'Fitri' means 'Fitrah'. Why fitrah ? Because during Ramadhan, we want to wash away all the stains of sins within ourselves, so that we can go back to our Fitrah. Putih suci. Question is, have you done enough ? Have you grabbed the precious chance ? Hehe. Berfalsafah la plak rase :P

sbb byk sgt dah upload gmba raya kat fb, tapi gamba smyg raya xde la plak. so here it is. hehe Mak Ude dgn Kakak Jihah. This time masa amik gambar, org kat sebelah mcm pandang pelik aje. Hihihi :P

Again, this entry is getting even tedious ! I was about to tell a different story, (different thing was playing in my mind just now), but then the raya story just popped out. Oh well, manusia manusia,

"He is called insan (human) because of his nisiyan (forgetfulness), and it is only called Al-Qalb (the heart) because it changes so rapidly (yataqallab)" - Arab proverb

Rasanya kejap lg nk update pasal entri lain plak :P

Bubye

Ahlami

Putih suci

Assalamualaikum.

How's your Ramadhan ? Are you treating Ramadhan very well ? Ramadhan ni tetamu and anugerah Allah SWT bg kat kite bukan biasa-biasa saje tau. So, all the amalan and ibadah in Ramadhan, also bear in mind kena 'luar biasa' jgk tau. Hehe meaning all ibadah are being upgraded laa the quantity and of course, quality (keikhlasan or sincerity which is the most difficult part)

So, Ramadhan for me, is also filled with meeting beloved friends, and visiting new born babies. We went to visit Kaie's baby boy. Kaie is my ex-classmate in SMKIP. She got married last year and been blessed with this precious little boy, named Iman Syakir bin Mohd Saiful. Tersangat lah comel. Yer betul, semua babies pon comel kan. Hehe, but I remember, Kaie's mother was saying to us that day,

'Comel deh baby nih. Dia tu putih bersih lg. Takdop doso gapo2 pom. Kita ibu bapa ni lah hok mencorakkan dia jadi lagu mano natih. Besar tanggungjawab nih'

Deep. Right into my heart. Allah bg baby bukan setakat nk tatap tgk wajah comel dia je tau. Byk lg tanggungjawab lain. May we all be blessed with beautiful and most importantly juruh-juruh kids, Inshaallah ! :) Mari berdoa, sebab Is cakap smalam mungkin ramai yang x tahu kekuatan DOA tu. The power of prayers ! So, what are u waiting for, doa doa doa okay :) Prayers are the best, greatest, amazing, awesome (fill it yourself any great words) wireless communication between you and Allah ! :)

Ni Iman Syakir :)

My name is Sumayya Tasneem and I love to smile ! :)

bubye

Ahlami

P/s Hehe baru teringat this year, is my first time giving out duit raya to kanak-kanak sekalian. Hohoho bankrup mak ude :P

The happiest one :)

With every heart beat :)

Is balik hari nih, after 5 months x jumpa.

Semoga selamat sampai, Ameen !

Just 4 days to catch up a few important things,

and spend time with family and friends as well. Moga dipermudahkan :)

Lagi 3 bulan jer lagi ooooiii. Huhu nervous la jugak :P

bubye

Ahlami

next chapter

Assalamualaikum.

Salam ramadhan semua. Lama sungguh laaa x update blog nih. Dah mcm-mcm sarang dah ade kot kat sini. Sarang labah-labah, sarang tikus, sarang semut (biskut sarang semut sedap), saranghe-yo pon ade ! Hihi

Anyway, x tahu nk update pasal ape sbenarnya nih, because everyday life seems to be just everyday life. Go to work. Get back home. But yes yes yes, dah jumpa dah differences, because we're in Ramadhan. So, ibadah khusus are being upgraded and topped up :) Alhamdulillah diberi kesihatan untuk sama-sama buat tewarih ehhhh silap, terawih ! Hehe

But, I hold on to this saying that says 'kelebihan bulan ramadhan ini bukankah terletak pada banyak mana kita pergi terawih or byk mana kita khatam quran semata-mata'. Sebab kan, ibadah puasa ni Allah dah bgtau, bukan malaikat yang kira pahala/ganjarannya, tapi Allah sendiri yg akan kira. Sebab tu kite berpuasa, the main aim is to be among orang-orang bertaqwa. 'Berpuasalah kamu, supaya menjadi org yg bertaqwa' (Check Al baqarah:183)

Wah wah wah tu dia Ahlami ! Hehe, takpe la kan, just my cheap two-cents of words. Take it or leave it. Hehe

Itu sahaja, semoga segala amalan yang kita buat nih diterima Allah swt. Kena ikhlas tau, x baik tunjuk-tunjuk ! Hehe :D

Bubye

Ahlami